If you really like a girl and want to kiss her, have sex with her and be her boyfriend, then I highly recommend that you avoid saying the following 3 things to her:
- I need to tell you something. I really like you and I want to take our friendship to the next level.
- What do you think about people who date their friends?
- Would you ever date a friend?
- Yeah, I agree! (About everything she says).
If you say one of those things, she will almost certainly play hard to get, friend zone you or in a worst case scenario, reject you.
From then on, your friendship with her will probably feel a bit awkward for the both of you.
Why will she play hard to get, or potentially even reject you for saying one of those things?
For one of the following reasons:
1. She doesn’t want to seem too easy, so she acts like she isn’t sure. If a guy then worries that he’s losing her and tries harder to impress her, a girl will usually then feel turned off by his insecurity and desperation. As a result, she becomes harder to get and in many cases, friend zones him or rejects him.
2. She isn’t normally hard to pick up, but based on his approach, she feels like she might be too good for him. She’s not too good for him, but he is making her feel that way based on his approach.
3. She feels turned off that he doesn’t have the balls to just kiss her, or set up a date and instead, is trying to discuss his way into a relationship with her.
4. The sexual and romantic feelings aren’t mutual, so it feels like it would be a one-sided relationship in which he is more into her than she is into him.
5. She feels pressured to make a decision to be his girlfriend right then and there because he is essentially asking for a yes or no answer. Yet, she would prefer to have an opportunity to kiss him, have sex with him and see how she feels first.
This is why I don’t recommend that you say any of those 3 things to a girl you like.
It just makes things more complicated and almost always leads to being friendzoned or rejected.
To make things simple and easy for you, what I recommend is that you talk to her in a way that makes her really want something to happen between you and her.
Make her feel excited that she might be able to get a chance with you.
Then, allow her to have that chance with you.
That way, she feels like the lucky girl who gets to be with you and you get yourself a girl that you really like.
The way that you talk to a girl directly shapes the type of relationship that you’re going to have with her. If you talk to her in one way, she’ll play hard-to-get. If you talk to her in another way, she won’t be hard to get and she won’t be easy to get she’ll be kind of neutral.
If you talk to her in another way, she’ll be attracted and interested in you and if you talk to her in another way, she’ll be very attracted and interested in you and we’ll even begin to pursue you right, she’ll be trying to make something happen between you and her, unfortunately, for a lot of guys out there, they simply aren’t aware of how to talk to a girl in a way that makes her really want to be with him to the point where she begins to pursue him and tries to get something going between them instead, a lot of guys, unknowingly, say things that make girls play hard-to-get and if the guy then tries harder to impress her and tries to get a chance with her she’ll play even harder to get and in most cases, he’ll end up getting friend-zoned or rejected.
So in this video, I’m gonna give you three examples of things that you shouldn’t say to a girl you like, because those things cause her to play hard-to-get and I’m also gonna. Tell you what you should say instead to make her feel very attracted to you and really want to be with you to the point where she feels like she should pursue you. Okay, the first thing that you shouldn’t say to a girl that you like is: I need to tell you something I really like you and I want to take our friendship to the next level. Imagine this scenario: a guy meets a girl and he really likes her.
Not only is she beautiful to him physically, but as he talks to her, he discovers that she’s, intelligent, down-to-earth and easygoing she’s, exactly the type of girl that he’s been looking for. He has met her at work at university or through mutual friends and has an opportunity to talk to her on a fairly regular basis, if not a daily basis, even though they only talk to each other as friends, he secretly has feelings for her and often daydreams About them being together, he hopes that one day she will develop feelings for him and then they will kiss and start a relationship.
Yet as he talks to her over the course of weeks or months, nothing happens so he ends up saying to her. This is something that I want to tell you. I really like you more than just a friend. You know I want to take our friendship to the next level, he’s hoping that she will then say that she has feelings for him too, and then they can start kissing, have sex and get into a relationship. Yet instead she says something like I don’t want to ruin our friendship. Besides, I don’t think I see you in that way, we’re just friends or that would be too weird.
Let’s just remain friends or don’t be silly, we’re just friends or I’m not sure. I think we’re better off as friends, some of the reasons why a girl will play hard-to-get in a case like that is that she doesn’t want to seem too easy. Alternatively, she feels pressured to make a decision about having what seems to be a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with him he’s putting her on the spot. She may also play hard-to-get because he’s handing over the power to her and she is now playing with that power by acting uninterested or even rejecting him.
Yet in most cases It’s because she wants things to happen, naturally, where they go on some sort of date or they catch up and then they kiss and if There’s a spark there, then they can begin a relationship they can have sex, they can start being boyfriend And girlfriend so saying to a girl that you like her – and you want to take your friendship with her to the next level. Isn’T the best thing to say. If you actually want to take things to the next level, because it will almost always result in the girl playing hard-to-get or in a worst case scenario, the girl rejecting you and then the friendship between you and her being awkward from then on.
So something that you can say instead, that makes the woman feel very attracted to you and makes her want to get something going between you and her is to make a play on those type of words right. Those type of words that you hear in TV shows and movies usually play out in a very typical way, There’s something that I’ve been meaning to tell you. I’ve been wanting to tell you this for quite some time. You know I want to get this off my chest, There’s something I want to tell you and then the male character goes and admits his feelings for the woman.
The woman knows that. So if you start off saying what you’re going to say by using those type of words, you can then say something complete the unexpected and make her laugh feel attracted to your confidence and feel excited about something happening between you and her. So here’s an example hey by the way, There’s something that I’ve been meaning to tell you. It’s been running through my mind, a lot when we hang out, I think about it, and you know I can’t seem to get it off my mind.
So I’m just gonna be honest and tell you that is we’ve been friends for what three months now and you haven’t even invited me over to your place, to cook me dinner. What sort of friend are you you and her are then going to have a life together and in most cases, what you’ll find is that the girl then says something like that? You need to cook her dinner. You know the man needs to do that. The world has changed or whatever and if that’s the case – and you can invite her over to your apartment or house to cook some dinner sure get her to come over there she’s going to come over to your place.
You’re gonna end up cooking up something together, then you’re gonna kiss and have sex and so on. Yet in most cases, what you’ll find is that the girl happily offers to do that, and you then say cool I’ll, bring someone over and it turns into a date where you and her are hanging out having fun in the kitchen and you end up kissing having sex and getting a relationship started by the way, if you’re worried about suggesting that she cooks, something for you which most girls love and they happily do or she come over to your place and you cook something up for her or you cook, something together, which girls also love, you can instead say that she hasn’t yet invited you out for ice cream, so you’re talking to her you’re hanging out as friends, and you can then tell her that there’s something that you’ve been meaning to tell her, and you know you want to get it off your chest and then have a bit of a smile on your face, as you tell her that you know.
You’ve been hanging out for the last three weeks or so or three months or whatever it is, and she hasn’t even invited you out for ice cream. What sort of friend is she tell her that she’s, a horrible friend you know what sort of friend doesn’t even invite another friend out for ice cream? let’s go out for an ice-cream now or let’s go out for an ice-cream tomorrow, night or the next night or Saturday night or Sunday afternoon, whatever you think will be appropriate for you and her and the schedule that you and her are on.
If you go down that path and you end up having some ice cream together and you’re laughing and hanging having a good time, you can then say something like this to her. Okay. So now, you’ve leveled up as a friend, you’ve gone up one level. The next level is to make me dinner. When are you gonna cook? For me? Essentially, you need to get things moving along towards you and her getting to a kiss having sex and starting a relationship. Of course, sometimes you’ll meet a girl at a bar or a party or somewhere and you’ll kiss her immediately or you’ll have sex with her on the first night or you’ll meet you’ll get a number you’ll call her your texter.
You set up a day, you’ll catch up, your kiss you’ll have sex and things will begin yet if you meet a girl that you really like and things aren’t moving along, even though you and her get along nicely as friends, then you need to use a different Approach you need to make her feel like she wants something to happen between you and her, so she becomes open to being alone with you at her place or going out for ice cream with you or whatever.
It may be the next thing not to say to a girl that you, like is what do you think about people who date their friends, or would you ever date, a friend when a guy isn’t confident about moving in for a first kiss or getting a woman To come home and have sex with him or just getting things moving along towards kissing and sex by having a date at her place or his place or whatever, then he will usually try to discuss his way into a relationship with a woman.
So he’ll start saying things like, so what do you look for in a guy or are you looking for a boyfriend and in this case, with the example of what not to say to a girl, a girl will say something like well? Would you ever date a friend or what do you think about people who date their friends right, he’s, hoping that she then says that she’s cool with it and hey, you know you and I could date we get along well. So why don’t we go on a date? You know, and just everything just happened so easily for him.
She gives him approval to start dating her and they begin dating. Yet what usually happens is that most girls aren’t dumb right. There are some dummies out there who don’t get it, but most girls get it right away that the guy is trying to suggest that maybe him and her could date and they could be an item. Yet he doesn’t have the confidence to make that happen. So he’s trying to discuss his way into maybe getting a chance with her, so what a girl will do. She will then play hard to get the goal.
We’ll ask her a question like so. Would you ever date a friend and she will then say something like mmm? No, I don’t think so. I think friends should just be friends or he might ask her. So what do you think of people who date their friends and she may then say that she doesn’t know she doesn’t care, or she might say that she thinks It’s lame and that people should be more social than me other people rather than try and date, their Friends, because when you date friends, it ends up causing problems and ruins friendships, and so on.
He doesn’t get that scenario that he’s been fantasizing in his mind about where he asks her a question like that, and then she says that you know she thinks It’s a great idea and by the way she has feelings for him and she has always been thinking About maybe they could be an item and hey, let’s go on a date, let’s kiss, let’s have sex. Let’s start this thing, so what a guy should say to a girl instead is something that doesn’t cause her to play.
Hard-To-Get like that, and instead makes her feel like she wants something to happen between him and her makes her feel like she is the one pursuing it and a very easy way to do that with the example that I was talking about earlier about her cooking. For you or you cooking up something for her or you and her going out for ice cream is to say what you’re going to say, but then followed up by saying something like this.
But only as friends, though, don’t get any ideas and you coming over to my place – we’re gonna cook something up, but don’t try to make moves on me in the kitchen or anything like that. I’m not that easy or something like this don’t get any funny ideas, though all right, I’m coming over you’re gonna cook me up some dinner, we’re just having dinner as friends, no funny ideas, no funny stuff or, if you’re going out for some ice cream. It’s just ice cream, though right don’t get any funny ideas, It’s not a sweet date where you get to kiss me at the end of it, we’re just going to have ice cream as friends.
In almost all cases, the girl will then laugh and try to quickly prove that she wasn’t thinking like that, and she was only thinking of catching up as friends, and you can then laugh and say here sure no worries, I believe you and make a joke out Of it right make her feel like you can see through her secret private thoughts and fantasies where she has been imagining kissing you and having sex with you. She didn’t know that you’re, aware of that, but you’re talking to her in a way that makes her feel like you are aware of the fact that she is attracted to you and she wants something to happen between you. that’s exciting for a girl, especially if she’s attractive, because pretty much every guy that she meets does not have the balls nor the social skills to make her feel like that.
He doesn’t know what to say. Instead, he says things like you know, There’s something that I’ve been meaning to tell you I, like you more than just a friend. I want to take our friendship to the next level. What do you think and he tries to discuss his way into a relationship or he asks her. So what do you look for in a guy and then he tries to be like that guy. The girl, then knows exactly what he’s up to and she then plays hard-to-get friends owns him or rejects him. The final thing not to say to a girl that you like is yeah. I agree about everything that she says: There’s nothing wrong with agreeing with a girl.
As you talk to her you and her can agree on many things together. Yet It’s when a guy is too agreeable to the point where he is faking it. He is trying to seem like him and the girl have so much in common that he ends up coming across in a way where he’s trying too hard, and the girl can sense that if a girl senses that a guy is agreeing with whatever she says or Seems interested in whatever she is talking about, because he’s hoping that it will make her like him, then she’s gonna play hard-to-get all right. She is gonna clue on to what he’s up to right.
Most girls can sense when a guy is doing that, because he has no idea how to make her feel attracted to him. So what you need to do is be willing to be real when you’re talking to a girl, but also make sure that you say it in a way that is going to make her feel attracted right, you’re not going to disagree with her in a way that Causes disconnections between you and her and makes her feel you know unhappy and awkward as she’s talking to you, you want to make her feel like you and her still get along, even though you disagree.
So, for example, the topic of the UFC, the Ultimate Fighting Championship, comes up and she says something like I hate the UFC, It’s too violent. What most guys will say, even though they may like the UFC, and may think that It’s not too violent is agree with her by saying something like yeah There’s so much blood, It’s very violent, isn’t it? The guy will talk to her in a way that he hopes will impress her. Yet if the girl has half a brain as she talks to him and sees that he’s do with pretty much everything that she talks about. She will clue on to the fact that he’s trying to impress her and get access inside of her panties by being a good little boy and it bring with whatever she says.
So if, for example, you happen to like the UFC or love the UFC and a girl says that she hates the UFC and thinks It’s too violent, you can then playfully say something like this to her yeah, oh you’re, such a wimp. What’s something like this? Oh, you see see It’s too violent. I thought you were a strong independent woman turns out you’re a wimp now, of course, you’re not personally attacking her in a serious way and saying that she’s, a wimp and she’s a, and all this sort of stuff. You just playfully messing with her and as a result, you and her still get along right.
She laughs. She tries to playfully defend herself and say that she’s not a,and then you can tell her to show you her muscles and you can have a squeeze and say no, I still think you’re a and have a laugh with her About that now compare that with a guy who is talking to a girl that he likes and she’s talking about something and he’s like yeah. I agree: yeah yeah, I’m the same yeah yeah. that’s what I think yeah I mean. Yes, It’s very violent. Isn’T it maybe they should wear bigger, gloves or something you know, yeah, that’s a completely different interaction, as I said at the start of the video.
The way that you talk to a girl will shape the type of relationship that you have with her. The way that you talk to her can make her play hard-to-get, be neutral, be attracted or be very attracted to the point where she feels like she really wants something to happen between you and her. Now. What makes a girl feel like she wants to have something happen between you and her as a result of you disagreeing with her well, it makes her feel challenged in the moment. She feels attracted to the fact that you’re confident enough to talk to her like that.
You’re not like other guys who are trying to suck up to her. You also have the social intelligence to make her laugh and be able to create moments like that you’re also not trying to discuss your way into a relationship with her instead you’re making her feel exciting emotions, desirable emotions and, as a result, she naturally feels drawn to You she wants more of you, she wants something to happen between you and her okay. I hope you enjoyed this video and learned something from it.
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You then make her feel attracted to you and make her really want something to happen between you and her. You then allow her to have that chance with you. She is the lucky girl that gets to be with you and you get yourself a girl that you really like. That is the best ever way to approach it and it works.