When most people think of a very nerdy guy, they usually don’t imagine him being able to get himself a girlfriend, unless he becomes rich or famous.
Yet, the fact is that millions of nerds across the world (who are just working in ordinary jobs, or are still at school or university) are able to get themselves a girlfriend.
How is that possible?
Aren’t women only interested in cool, confident, tough looking guys?
Don’t you have to be really masculine and alpha to get a girl?
Don’t geeky guys automatically get rejected by women for not being cool, tough or confident enough?
Not in all cases.
Here’s the thing…
Being masculine, alpha, confident, cool (depending on who is judging of course) and tough looking are things that women can and do feel attracted to.
That is true.
Yet, there are millions of women out there who will happily accept a nerd, or a nerdy looking guy as their lover, boyfriend or husband.
Here are the 4 common reasons why:
- Some women see themselves as a bit of a nerd, even though they may not look like it.
- If a nerd lacks confidence around a girl that he likes, he will use another quality of his that will often allow him to get the job done.
- Some women only feel comfortable in a relationship with a guy who seems like he doesn’t have other options.
- Like most women, she is easy to get if a guy is able to get things moving along with her.
Watch the video for an explanation of those 4 points above.
By the way…
What kind of man do you see yourself as?
- Cool guy
- Nice guy
- Good guy
- Bad boy
- Party animal
- Shy guy
- Confident guy
- Normal guy
Are you any one of those men, or a combination of them?
Maybe something even a little different to that?
You are you.
That is what the world needs you to be.
…and it’s also what so many women out there will love you for.
You just need to have the confidence OR the determination to talk to women that you find attractive and get something going between you and her.
That is the reality we live in.
Some guys want to deny it because they want to believe that the only way to get a girlfriend is to be very good looking, rich or successful.
Why do guys want to believe that?
Believing that means they don’t have to face up to their fear of being rejected.
They can avoid talking to women by making up excuses and saying that women are too picky, it’s all too difficult and no girl will ever like them unless they are rich or have big muscles.
Yet, they are wrong.
So many women would not only LIKE them, but LOVE them.
That is the reality we live in.
If you want a girlfriend, you just need to have the confidence OR the determination to talk to women that you find attractive and get something going between you and her.
Some guys might feel a little bit shocked by what you’re about to see and learn until I begin to explain why it happens and how it happens, how a nerd or a nerdy looking guy gets himself a girlfriend. The thing is 89 % of guys who watch my videos, don’t see themselves as being a nerd. Yet there is a powerful lesson to learn when you understand how nerds get themselves a girlfriend. What is the nerd secret to getting a girlfriend if he isn’t confident around the type of girls that he likes?
How does he get himself a girlfriend here are four ways that it happens. Number one. Some women see themselves as a bit of a nerd, even though they may not look like it. The thing is, a woman may be sweet, nice and fun to be around, but she may secretly enjoy just hanging out with her boyfriend and doing things that other people may see as being nerdy. As a result of that, she feels like she can relate to him. She feels like they understand each other additionally going to the more extreme end of the nerd spectrum, so the ultra nerds, some women, like the fantasy version of reality, that some guys seem to live in where they dress up and they fantasize about being a certain character or living in a certain type of world, the two of them will get up to little adventures together and they’ll feel like they’re saving the planet or they’ll feel like superheroes or they’re, making a difference in the world to other people. They may seem strange, but to each other they will feel cool right.
They will feel like they are looking at a version of reality that other people don’t see and It’s fun for them, and everyone else is missing out number two. If a nerd lacks confidence around a girl that he likes, he will use another quality of his. That will often allow him to get the job done. Some guys who other people will label as being nerdy or who will label themselves as being nerdy, will be confident about themselves. They won’t be an insecure shy type of node.
There will be a confident nerd that type of nerd will have the confidence to talk to girls. He likes attract them and get something going between him and her. Yet what about the Nerds, who lack confidence are girls that they like? How do they get a girlfriend? The main quality that will help a nerd who lacks confidence to get himself a girlfriend is determination right. He will see a girl that he likes and he will feel determined to talk to her. He will feel determined to keep talking to her.
He will feel determined to ask her out. You ask for her phone number to get something going between him and her all the while. He won’t be feeling confident about it. He may feel anxious around the girl. He will worry about getting rejected, but because he likes her so much, he will feel determined to continue talking to her and get something going between him and her number three. Some women only feel comfortable in a relationship with the guy who seems like he doesn’t have other options. This can be due to a woman getting her heart, broken in previous relationships.
Thinking that she’s not beautiful enough to hold a confident guy down in a relationship and so on, she hopes that she’ll be able to have a stable relationship that lasts for life if she doesn’t go for a player type of guy or a very confident. Guy. Now, of course, There’s no guarantee for her that the relationship is going to last any longer than it would if she was with a confident guy or with a player who settled down and decided to be with her. Yet that is her strategy. She has decided that she’s going to go for a guy who seems like he doesn’t have other options and, as a result, we’ll see her as being valuable.
She hopes that he will appreciate the fact that he’s got himself a good girlfriend and, as a result, he will want to treat her well make the relationship work and stay with her for life number 4, like most women. She is easy to get if a guy is able to get things moving along with her most guys who meet a girl that they like stop at a brief conversation with her or get the woman feeling some attraction and then give up because they fear being rejected. If a node has the confidence to get something going between him and a girl that he likes, or he has the determination to push himself to talk to her, keep talking to her ask for her number ask her out and get something going between him and her. Then it will be possible for him to get himself a girlfriend.
The thing is not every girl out there will accept a nerdy looking guy or a guy who is into nerdy thinks. That is true, yet many girls will millions of nerds across the world are able to get themselves a girlfriend, because many girls will accept a nerdy looking guy or a geeky looking guy, if he’s able to get something going between him and the girl. So, regardless of the type of guy that you are, It’s very important for you to understand that it is possible for you to get yourself a girlfriend or even enjoy your choice of women for a while before you decide to settle down.
So many guys count themselves out with women because they think that they’re not good enough. Yet some guys assume that they have to build up a lot of muscle. And then women will accept him or move into a better apartment. And then women will like them or get promoted at work, and then women will like them. Meanwhile, guys who don’t even go to the gym are able to get themselves a girlfriend. Guys who don’t live in a fancy. Apartment are able to get themselves a girlfriend and guys who haven’t got promoted at work yet are able to get themselves a girlfriend.
They are just normal everyday guys who had the confidence to talk to girls that they liked or had the determination to talk to a girl that they like and get something going between him and her ok. I hope you enjoyed this video and learned something from it. If you are one of the guys who lacks the confidence to approach and talk to women that you find attractive or you get stuck at certain points along the way, because you don’t have the determination to keep going or you just don’t know what to say or Do to get to the next level with a woman, then I recommend that you read my ebook the flow or listen to the audiobook version.
The flow on audio the flow is everything that you need to know to go from hello to sex with a woman that you find attractive when you read the flow or listen to the flow on audio, you will learn my best ever conversation status, best ways to Instantly make a woman feel attracted to you as soon as you start talking to her how to keep a conversation going and keep it interesting. How to create an unforgettable connection between you and a woman how to get her phone number? How to get her out in a date with you, how do we share the first kiss and how to initiate sex when you know the flow?
You won’t stuck at a certain point with a woman that you, like. You will flow from one step to the next. With her, It’s very easy to do. One final point that I want to make for you in this video is that when a man is talking to a woman in person she’s, not necessarily remembering all of the male models that she’s seen in magazines or all of the photos of guys that she’s seen On tinder, instead, she is assessing how the guy makes her feel in that moment. Is he making her feel attracted and turned on even in the slightest? Is she feeling drawn to him in some way?
Is there something about him that she likes? If a woman is feeling some attraction and feeling drawn to a guy, she will usually go along with what the guy is creating with her. She will usually give her phone number or go on a date with him. She will go along with it rather than rejecting him, based on all of her possible options right. The possible options that she may have on an app like tinder right, if she’s, interacting with the guy in person and she’s, feeling something, and he has the confidence or the determination to get things moving along with her.
She will usually go along with that. The thing is, there are women out there who have very strict standards and they will not go for a nerdy type of guy, but many women will go for a guy who others may see as being nerdy or who sees himself as being a nerd. So if you see yourself as being a cool guy, a player, a bad boy, a nice guy, a good guy, a normal guy and nerd this or that what you need to understand is that you can get yourself a girlfriend.
Most women are easy to pick up. If you have the confidence to approach them and talk to them, or at least the determination to push yourself to actually talk to them, keep a conversation going and then get something going between you and her.