If a guy isn’t good looking, he will usually blame his lack of success on that.
Yet, if a guy is good looking, what can he blame his lack of success with women on?
Well, many good looking guys automatically begin to think that it must be because they’re not successful enough in life, or that they need to wear better clothes or go to the gym to build more muscle.
Meanwhile, they will notice that guys who aren’t even successful in life, wear ordinary clothes and don’t even go to the gym are able to attract pretty women for sex and relationships.
So, what the heck is going on?
Why do good looking guys rarely get the girl that they REALLY want?
In the video above, I explain the following 4 reasons in detail:
- He gets a lot of attention from women, but is usually only pursued by women who aren’t as attractive as the ones he really wants.
- He is confused about why beautiful women look at him and seem to find him attractive, but doesn’t seem interested when he starts talking to them.
- He doesn’t want to ruin the illusion that his friends have of him.
- He uses Tinder or online dating, rather than approaching women that he finds attractive in real life.
Here’s the thing…
Whether you are very good looking, good looking, average looking (that’s me), below average looking or even ugly, you have to accept one, simple fact about women.
That is, in almost all cases, if you want the type of woman you REALLY want, you have to talk to her in person and make her feel attracted to you based on your personality traits and behaviors.
That is the truth.
Sometimes, a good looking guy won’t have to do that because the woman will like him enough to want him just based on his looks.
Yet, if a guy doesn’t get that kind of reaction from a woman he really likes, he has to MAKE HER feel attracted to him as he talks to her.
Since I am an average looking guy (or below average, depending on who is doing the rating), I was pretty much forced to have to figure out how to attract women as I talked to them.
Thankfully, it is the easiest thing that you will ever learn how to do in your life.
It’s ridiculous how easy it is to attract and pick up pretty women when you know how to attract them as you TALK to them.