Shy girls often miss out on being with the guy they like, because the way that a shy girl shows interest can be confusing for some guys.
For example: At least 5 out of the 10 signs I explain in this video make some guys feel as though the shy girl doesn’t like them or is losing interest, when she actually does like them and isn’t losing interest.
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A lot of men don’t realize that there are more shy women than shy men, because women usually do a great job of hiding their shyness.
For example: According to research at Pittsburgh University, out of 100 shy women, only 15% will be visibly shy and the remaining 85% will be privately shy.
In other words, 85% shy girls and shy women do a great job of acting as though they are fine, when in fact, they are feeling shy and anxious on the inside.
The shyness that a woman feels around a guy that she likes, can result in her behaving in ways that seem a little weird to the guy and in some cases, seem as though she isn’t interested.
So, if you want to have a shy girl as a girlfriend or lover, it’s important to be aware of the signs she will show when interested, so you can then have the confidence to make a move.
If you don’t make a move with a shy girl who is interested in you, she usually won’t be be the one to build up the courage to make a move on you.
Instead, she will remain shy and if another guy comes along who can also make her feel attracted, notice the signs and have the confidence to make a move, she will usually go with him instead.
The reality is that you and her could have been a much better match, but he made a move, so he got the girl.
A shy girl or a shy woman will often end up missing out on being with the guy that she really likes, because the way that she shows interest can be confusing for some guys. For example, at least five out of the ten signs that I’m going to explain for you in this video leave some guys feeling that the girl isn’t interested in them when she actually is so It’s important to understand these hidden signs that a shy girl likes you. So you can be aware of why she is behaving in a certain way around you and not take it as though it means she doesn’t like you instead be able to see that she is trying to show you interest.
So, let’s begin with an easy, positive sign of interest that still is a hidden sign of interest because she’s not directly saying hey, I like you, let’s start dating so the first hidden sign of interest, is that she can’t seem to stop herself from smiling when she Interacts with you, the thing is, if you’re interacting with a confident girl, rather than a shy girl and the confident girl wants to find herself a very confident boyfriend, she will usually control her smile right.
She won’t want to make it too easy for the guy, because she wants to find herself a guy who can remain confident around her, regardless of how she is behaving. She doesn’t want to help him along too much right. She wants to be a little bit difficult. Seem a little bit indifferent and if the guy can remain confident, then she will drop her guard and show him her friendly, more easygoing and down-to-earth side that she doesn’t show to other guys. On the other hand, if you’re interacting with a shy girl, then she usually doesn’t need her boyfriend to be ultra confident.
Instead, in most cases, a shy girl just needs her boyfriend to be a bit more confident than her. As a result, she doesn’t need to control her smile and try to find herself an ultra confident boyfriend. Instead, she can smile and show interest, and she hopes that the guy that she’s interacting with will see that she is interested and have the confidence and courage to then make a move. Of course not every woman is the same. So you will meet confident women who smile a lot as you start talking to them, and they will then test your confidence in a different way.
They will test your confidence by playfully teasing you as you talk to them or pretending to lose interest. As you begin talking to them, and so on now in terms of playfully teasing you when you talk to them, do you think that that’s something that a shy girl will do if she’s interested in you? Well sometimes she does and that’s why It’s one of those confusing signs of interest that can cause a guy to feel as though he’s being rejected by the shy girl.
So let’s talk about the second hidden sign that a shy girl likes you. She playfully teases you during a conversation just because a girl is shy and is a little bit more timid or hesitant compared to a confident girl. It doesn’t mean that she’s going to be sweet, nice and friendly all the time when she’s talking to a guy. Instead, she will still do what pretty much every woman does, and that is to playfully challenge a guy as she’s talking to him.
She will try to engage the guy in some playful banter, so there’s a bit more of a spark between him and her, rather than them just having friendly polite reserved conversations all the time. So, for example, a guy is talking to a shy girl and they’re getting along they’re having a friendly conversation. Yet she’s worried that there isn’t enough of a spark between him and her. It seems kind of boring she likes him, but she’s not feeling it. So she playfully teases him during the conversation to hopefully create a bit more of a playful spark between him and her and liven up the boring, neutral, polite and reserved conversation that they’ve been having, for example, she asks him.
So what do you like to get up to on the weekends – and he says oh nothing much – I just like to chill out and she then says well that sounds kind of boring. I thought you were cool at that point and at any other point with a woman, a man basically has two choices, be insecure or be confident. An insecure choice will be to quickly try to tell her some cool things that he does because he’s worried that she will lose interest in him. Yet if he panics and she senses that he isn’t confident in who years, then she will lose interest in him.
If she’s looking for a boyfriend, who was at least a bit more confident than her, so the other choice that a man always has with a woman is to be confident. For example, if a man is talking to a shy woman and she asks him what he likes to get up to on the weekends, he says that he just likes to chill out and she then playfully teases him by saying that It’s boring. He can then say something like this sounds boring.
Well, what do you like to get up to on the weekends if, for example, she then says that she gets up to exciting things on the weekends or interesting things on the weekends? You can then say something like this: well, aren’t you a little miss exciting? That sounds like fun. You should invite me, along next time, I’ll go It’s in moments like those that a shy girl and a guy can start dating having sex and enjoying a relationship or the guy can become insecure and think that she now thinks that he’s boring. She used to think that he was cool.
She doesn’t think that anymore. He stuffed up he’s ruined his chances with her. Now, no, you have to be aware that sometimes even a shy, sweet girl will playfully tease you to spark things up between you and her rather than just having polite nice conversations all the time she doesn’t want the interaction or date to end with you and her. Only feeling, like friends, due to the conversation being too nice neutral or polite instead, she wants to feel that boyfriend-girlfriend vibe with you, where you and her feel free to joke around with each other, and sometimes even playfully, tease each other about things.
Additionally, she will sometimes want to see, if you believe in yourself, so she can feel safe and protected being with a boyfriend who is at least a bit more confident than her number 3. She laughs at your jokes and uses it as an excuse to touch you. If you’re interacting with a shy girl who normally isn’t very touchy-feely and is kind of hesitant and timid around people, but she then feels so much attraction and interest for you that she occasionally touches you on the leg on the arm or the chest.
When you’re cracking jokes, then you have to be able to see that as a sign that she’s finding you attractive, she likes you and she’s trying to let you know via that sign. The thing is, though, some guys will be interacting with a shy girl and she’ll. Be laughing at his jokes and touching him on the leg on the arm or the chest and he’ll just assume that she must be like that with other guys or she’s only doing that to be friendly, and the thing is that could be right. She could be like that with other guys, and she could only be doing it to be friendly.
So if you want to be certain, you’ve got to make sure that you look for other signs in combination. For example, while we’re talking about touching an interesting sign to be aware of when you’re talking to a girl and suspect that she likes you is when she uses her phone as an excuse to get close to you and touch you, a shy girl will often do That to hopefully let you see that she is cool with being that close to you. If you notice that sign in combination with other signs, then you will know that she likes you and It’s time to move things forward to kissing sex and a relationship.
Okay. So now, let’s look at the fourth hidden sign of interest from a shy girl, she’s lost for words around you. This can happen when she doesn’t want to say something that may make you look at her as being uncool or awkward. So she ends up overthinking. What she’s going to say and, as a result, she runs out of things to say in cases like that she needs you to help her along in the conversation, but she won’t always make that completely obvious to you. Instead, you need to be able to look out for those signs, for example, you’re, interacting with a shy girl, and she doesn’t leave the interaction, but she isn’t saying much now that can be that she is lost for words during the conversation or it can also be that she keeps going to the safety of her phone right.
She doesn’t know what to say so. She starts looking through her phone clicking things and so forth, going to the safety of her phone, but she’s still there with you right, she hasn’t walked away. She doesn’t know what say she is feeling shy and doesn’t know what to do. In many cases a shy girl will stick around like that to hopefully keep the interaction going, so she doesn’t have to walk away and miss out on talking to you further. She hopes that you will be able to get her talking and get her to open up more, so you and her can then connect possibly get to a kiss or go on a date and see what happens from there.
In addition to delaying stalling and trying to give you some extra time by hanging around and playing with her phone, a weird thing that a shy girl will sometimes do is to pretend that she has a cough or needs to clear her throat that fake little cough Or clearing of the throat that some people do when they are feeling nervous and trying to fill up what they see as an awkward silence in a conversation.
Alternatively, she might pretend to have a sore shoulder or a sore back and will start stretching, so she doesn’t have to leave the interaction right away. Essentially, she doesn’t know what to say is feeling a bit shy, but doesn’t want to leave the interaction just yet, so she is trying to stall delay and give you some extra time to ask her something or say something to keep the conversation going. So if you’re talking to a shy girl and she’s not saying much during the conversation, don’t assume It’s because she doesn’t like you in many cases, especially if you’re seeing other signs of interest.
It’s because her shyness is causing her to be lost for words around you. She needs you to help her along in the conversation until she gets to the point where she feels confident enough to express herself more freely and openly. When talking to you number five, you often catch her looking at you and she then nervously looks away or acts as though she is busy doing something else. The thing is, sometimes a girl will be looking at a guy that she doesn’t like and if he notices she will then look away nervously because she doesn’t want to make him think that she likes him.
Yet if there is a shy girl that you suspect likes you and you often catch her looking at you and she then nervously looks away or acts as though she is busy doing something else. Then It’s a hidden sign that she likes you. The thing is, there are a lot of shy girls out there, but it doesn’t always seem obvious that the girl is shy. For example, according to the association of anxiety and depression in America, women experience anxiety disorders such as social anxiety and shyness at twice the rate of men right double the rate.
Additionally, researchers at Pittsburg University discovered that approximately 15 % of shy women are visibly shy, whereas the remaining 85 % are privately shy. In other words, most women do a really good job of hiding their shyness right. They may just go into their shell. They may be a bit quiet and not say much, but on the surface they may seem, like everything is cool yet, underneath that she is still feeling the pain, the isolation, the loneliness, the confusion and the annoyance of their shyness. Yet, on the surface it just won’t seem like that. She’ll seem like a normal girl now with those women who are visibly shy and even privately shy. If you catch them.
Looking at you, they usually won’t have the confidence to smile back at you or maintain eye contact and wave, or try to show you that they’re interested. Instead, the shy woman will be in her head right. She’ll be worrying, she’ll, be thinking. Ah, no I’m coming across as too keen. He might think this or whatever or she’ll, just have that worrying feeling that closed up feeling that kg feeling that she feels because of her shyness and she won’t be able to just remain calm, maintain eye contact with you. Smile and let you know that she likes you number 6.
She seems very interested in you via social media or chat apps, but not in person. If a girl is shy and she’s showing you interest via social media chat, apps or text, but not in person, then she will hope that you can understand how difficult it is for her to show you that interest in person versus online right in person. She is a shy girl right. She doesn’t have the confidence of a confident girl. She tends to go into her shell and doubt herself around a guy that she likes. She tends to close up. She finds it difficult to step outside of her comfort zone and start being more assertive to make things happen between her and a guy that she likes.
So if you want to get yourself a shy girl who isn’t coming over to you and saying I like you, let’s start dating and instead is showing you hidden signs of interest, then you need to be the more courageous one. You need to be able to see the signs of interest and then have the courage and confidence to make a move. If you don’t, then what often happens is that all it takes to be replaced is for another guy to come along, make her feel some attraction notice the signs and then have the confidence to make a move.
Now, The reality is that you and her could have been a better match and she could have liked you and loved you so much more. Yet if you don’t make a move with the shy girl, she will usually not get to the point where she builds up the courage to come and ask you out. Instead, she will remain shy right. She will remain in her shell and she will hope that you have the courage to make a move number seven. She takes an interest in your life or hobbies and regularly asks you about it, not knowing how else to show her interest in you.
A shy girl will often try to get to know you and find out things about you, so she can then show you that she is interested in who you are in many cases a shy girl will be afraid to show direct interest in a sexual or romantic Relationship with you, so she will try to hint at her interest by being very interested in you and your life. So if you are seeing other signs of interest from her in combination to this sign, then take it as one of those hidden signs that she likes. You and is interested in being more than just a friend to you number eight.
She tries hard to be chatty and fun around you if she is quiet and reserved around others, but suddenly lights up. When you start talking to her, It’s usually a sign that she’s trying to seem fun and interesting. So you like her, she doesn’t want you to see her as a boring girl and then lose interest in her. Of course, most guys don’t care if the girl is a little bit boring right if she’s, pretty and she’s nice and friendly and the guy likes her he’s want to be with her, but many girls, especially shy girls, don’t realize that and It’s one of the reasons Why women experience anxiety disorders at twice the rate of men? Women tend to overthink things, but on the surface it can seem like she is totally fine. She’s got it all together, she’s, just this happy fun, chatty girl.
She likes talking to you, but underneath that she’s worried that you’re gonna think she’s boring and then lose interest in her number 9. She sometimes hides her face with her hands, clothes or hair. When talking to you, sometimes when a girl doesn’t like a guy, she will hide her face behind her. A t-shirt or she’ll hide her face behind her hand and she’ll, be thinking that the guy’s weird and trying to show him that she doesn’t like him. Yet if you’re interacting with a shy girl and she’s showing you signs of interest, she’s smiling and she occasionally covers her face with her hands, clothes or hair.
Then It’s important to understand why she will do that when she likes you. The psychology behind that type of body language is that she is trying to conceal how she feels right. She’s feeling attracted to you, she’s feeling excited around you and she’s. Trying to hide her face, hopefully conceal how she feels she is shy and embarrassed about showing you that she likes you. Another reason for it, which is a bit of an instinctive reaction, is to try to cover any blushing that she’s experiencing on her cheeks. Now, of course, not all shy.
Girls blush and some shy girls will be wearing makeup, so the blushing won’t be really evident, but the instinctive reaction to cover her face will still be there. She will be blushing or she’ll feel that heat in her body, when she’s worrying that you’re gonna see that she likes you and she might seem too keen and so forth. So she tries to cover her face to conceal how she feels number 10. She spends a lot of time with you, or at least tries to spend a lot of time with you. This actually happened to me when I was first starting to get good with women.
I was out with a friend of mine and we met three girls who became our female friends and they were inviting us to parties were inviting them to things, and I was hooking up with other girls in the meantime. Yet there was a girl in the group that I liked who refer to me as buddy and pal when she was talking to me. She talked to me as though her and I were only friends but I could see through it. I could see that she was feeling attracted to me and one night, my friend and I went out with her and one of her girlfriends for some dinner and afterwards we went back to my apartment and her and I ended up out on the balcony.
We were talking, and there was a bit of flirting and laughing and after a couple of minutes I squared up with her, I looked at her up and down put my arm around her lower back and just gently started to draw her to me. She willingly came, and within seconds we were kissing that night we ended up having sex and then started seeing each other for a while. Now the thing is that wouldn’t have happened. If I didn’t make a move, if I wasn’t aware that she was feeling attracted and didn’t, have the confidence to then make a move, she was a privately shy girl right.
She wasn’t very visibly shy. She seemed just kind of normal happy-go-lucky type of girl. Yet I found out that she had a huge crush on me from the start, but was afraid to get rejected and she was calling me buddy and pal to not seem keen and not seem desperate and things like that she was overthinking it right. I liked her. I found her attractive. I found her interesting. She liked me, but she was playing all these games – buddy, pal and so forth, and hey, let’s go to this party and let’s just hang out as friends. So when you can see through that type of behavior from women, and you can see that they like you, then you have the confidence to make a move.
You know that women, like you and when you make a move and they like you, then you start kissing. You have sex and start a relationship. Okay. I hope you enjoyed this video and learn something from it. If you were one of the guys who finds it difficult to make, women feel attracted to you as you talk to them, or if you tend to get stuck at certain points along the way, such as moving in for a kiss or getting a phone number or Getting a girl to go out in the date with you and so on, then I recommend that you read my ebook the flow or listen to the audiobook version.
The flow on audio the flow is my proven to work step by step process for immediately at acting a woman connecting with her and then taking things to the next level, such as a phone number kiss and then sex or a phone number date kiss, and then Sex, It’s the easiest way to get laid or get a girlfriend. You can use the flow on new women that you meet and you can also use it on girls that you already know It’s a simple, step-by-step process that works. One final point that I want to make for you in this video is that when it comes to dating most women are passive, they aren’t assertive and they don’t chase after a guy and say I like y’all want to be with you. Take me out on a date, some women do that, but most women are passive.
What they do is they wait for a guy who has the courage, the confidence to ask them out, and that’s usually the reason why you’ll see a guy with a pretty girl and wonder what is she doing with him? Well, he had the confidence to ask her out. He had the confidence to make a move. You may be cooler than him. You may be better than him in so many ways, but he made a move so whether you’re, interacting with a confident girl or a shy girl, if she is showing you many signs of interest, then make a move. I don’t wait for her to say: hey, I, like you, take me out in a day kiss me and so forth.
If she’s showing you that she likes you, then she’s going to want you to have the confidence to make a move, and in many cases, if the woman is insecure, like most women out there, then she’s going to want to see that you have enough interest in Her to make a move that you’re, not just talking to her you’ve, got to understand that most women out there overthink things. They worry, that a guy will reject them or is only partially interested in them and so forth. So if you’re, interacting with a woman, she’s feeling attracted to you she’s, showing that to you, then make a move, get something happening between you and her